關於在澳洲被貼標籤。

從小在台灣長大的我，就一直不斷地被貼種種的標籤。這些標籤使我受傷與自尊心低落。

我來到澳洲後，融入截然不同的社會價值，雖然在台灣被貼的標籤已隨著文化價值差異與時間推移逐漸脫落，但我也逐漸開始有新的標籤。

一直以來，這些標籤讓我相信，我不夠好。不管怎麼努力，都不夠好，我無法對每一個人交代我的行為與人生。

最終我發現，我雖然滿足了一個人，在遠端的另一人帶著不同的價值觀也可能會對我的行為不滿。而我在滿足別人的同時，我在夜深人靜時也會開始對自己的行為感到不滿，埋怨為甚麼不做能夠讓自己滿意的決定。

結論是，不管你做甚麼決定，都有人不滿。為了能夠對夜深人靜的自己感到滿意，請能夠對自己人生交代的選擇。

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About being labelled in Australia 🇦🇺.

Growing up in Taiwan, I have been constantly labelled into various categories. These labels left me with hurt and low self-esteem.

After I came to Australia, I integrated into completely different social values. Although the labels I was attached to in Taiwan have gradually fallen off due to differences in cultural values ​​and the passage of time, I have gradually begun to have new labels.

All the while, these labels led me to believe that I wasn’t good enough. No matter how hard I try, it‘s never good enough. I can’t make everyone happy with all my behaviours and decisions.

In the end, I discovered that even if I satisfied one person, another person at the far end with different values ​​​​may also be dissatisfied with my behaviour. While I was satisfying others, I would also start to feel dissatisfied with my own behavior in the dead of night, complaining about why I didn‘t make a decision that would satisfy me.

The bottom line is, no matter what decision you make, someone will be unhappy with it. In order to be satisfied with yourself in the dead of night, please make the choice that you are happy with for your own sake.

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