I have this lovely friend who I love and respect. I kept wondering why, sometimes, people walked away from his conversations. I found him knowledgeable and interesting.
As I observed more closely, I realized that when he speaks, he often doesn’t pause between topics or allow space for others to contribute. This made me reflect on how the rhythm of a conversation impacts its flow and how we connect with others- not just in personal relationships, but also in leadership or as changemakers striving to inspire others.
Pausing is a powerful tool for anyone who wants to make a difference. It creates space for your audience- whether it’s one person, a group, or an entire community- to process your message, feel engaged, and respond authentically. Pausing allows ideas to land more effectively, encourages others to share their perspectives, and fosters collaboration. Without pauses, even the most powerful message can get lost in the flow, leaving others feeling disconnected.
In my formal coaching training, I was taught the value of being comfortable with silence. Pausing isn’t just about creating space- it’s about building trust and encouraging reflection, which are essential for driving meaningful change. For changemakers, business owners, and influencers, this practice is transformative because it helps you connect with people on a deeper level, inspire action, and create lasting impact.
Whether you’re leading, coaching, building a business, or working to influence positive change, practicing the art of pausing can strengthen your message and deepen your connections. It’s a simple yet powerful way to ensure that what you say resonates and inspires the change you seek.
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