When we can't achieve our goals, do we blame our parents, partners, weather, or location? Or do we take responsibility for our success?
When we were young, we might have felt envious if a school friend from the same area had something expensive. At the same time, our parents did their best for us but couldn't always fulfil our desires.
This might have made us feel jealous and blame our parents for not being able to afford expensive items. Yes, we are all born into different circumstances, but once we enter society, we all start from the same place.
Regardless of our background, we all need to invest time in learning, understand different personalities, win trust, and push ourselves out of our comfort zones to create the future we envision.
While a wealthy family can provide opportunities, genuine self-respect and satisfaction come from earning what we want. This sense of satisfaction and self-reliance cannot be given; it must be earned through actions.
Blaming others is a trap that makes us feel like we have no control over our lives. It stops us from taking responsibility for our choices. Learning to take the reins and drive can be scary at first, but with practice, we can experience the freedom of controlling our destinies.