Living a purposeful life begins with how we see ourselves. According to body image researcher Thomas Cash, about one third of our self-esteem is connected to our body image. And when our self-esteem is low, we often hold back from the life we truly want.
I remember being a teenager and secretly wanting to join the school dance club. I loved watching how the dancers moved so freely, how the music brought them to life. But deep down, I believed I was ugly. I thought only pretty girls belonged in the spotlight. I told myself I would look out of place, so I stayed quiet. I sat on the sidelines and watched others shine, even though I longed to be part of it.
That may sound like a small moment, but it left a lasting impact. It taught me that I had to look a certain way before I could do the things I loved. I carried that silent belief for years.
In my book From Ugly to Beautiful Without Surgery, I share how these experiences shape more than our confidence. They influence the choices we make, the dreams we chase, and the way we show up in the world.
Only in recent years, after doing the inner work to rebuild my self-image, did I finally allow myself to dance. Not for anyone else. Just for me. And I absolutely love it. Dance brings me so much joy, energy, and freedom. It is now a part of my life I cannot imagine living without.
This is why I share my story. Not just to talk about dance, but to remind you that your appearance does not define your right to belong. You are allowed to enjoy life now. You are allowed to try new things, to take up space, to be seen and heard.
You do not need to wait until you change something about yourself. You already deserve to be part of any space that calls to your heart.
To learn more or explore the book, visit www.ccwithin.com
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We are now open for body image workshop bookings. Our workshops are designed for workplaces, schools, and organizations that want to support healthy self-esteem and promote a more positive body image culture.
We are now open for body image workshop bookings, and also offer inclusive one-on-one self-image breakthrough sessions.
